I used to wake up knowing I wouldn’t keep the promises I made to myself
So I stopped making giant plans. I started making smaller promises. This is what happened: ❌ Old Way: "I will...
What Are Your Emotions Trying to Tell You?
Emotions are signposts. They carry vital data - but we can only access it when we stop trying to outrun the feelings...
True resilience cannot be built on a foundation of self-rejection
You can track your sleep. Regulate your nervous system. Ice bath every morning.. Force the positive thoughts. Listen...
What Is Your Procrastination Style
What’s your procrastination style? If you love a useful quiz this is for you. Ever looked at a task on your to-do list...
My Clients Are Not Waiting To Be Rescued
I don’t fix my clients. And, you know, I really dislike this idea that so many people in the wellness industry seem to...
If you only ever give yourself permission to rest when you’re sick..
...don't be surprised if your nervous system learns that sickness is the fastest way to make you stop. Your nervous...
You’re a woman. You need to feel powerful.
It’s why mansplaining grates on you. Why being expected to carry the entire emotional and domestic load makes...
Do You Know What’s Embarrassing? Nothing.
Do you know what’s embarrassing? Nothing. Embarrassment is made up. Do your thing. Seriously. Embarrassment is just a...
Apparently I have a criticism kink
Last month a client told me our 9 coaching sessions had been more effective for her than years of therapy or EMDR. As...
I’m convinced that the secret to building your dream life is biting off more than you can chew and then learning how to chew it.
Most of the coolest things I’ve done started with me saying "yes" to something that someone else said was...
Oestrogen is the hormone of “no worries if not!”
That’s why I am not sad to see it go. Losing oestrogen is destabilising, yes. But that loss also loosens some of the...
The Rock-Bottom Blueprint: How I Found My Confidence When I Was Broke, Dumped, and Lonely
We live in a culture that likes to sell confidence as a luxury item. We are told that confidence is something you...










