The best term to find someone like me is when life is messy. Or difficult. Or stressful. It’s a strange thing to meet people when they feel like they are at their worst. It’s never what I see. But I am all too familiar with that thing where your self-perception is so profoundly negative that it doesn’t matter what anyone else says, you still feel like a hot mess.
Shame can stop us seeking change when life feels messy. As if showing someone the depth of what we see as our mess is too vulnerable. Fear can stop us too. Fear of judgment. Fear of getting your hopes up and nothing changing yet again. And time can also be a barrier. If you’re going to invest £ in anything then you need to find the time to do it properly.
None of these things actually need to stop you. The only obstacle here is believing your fear your shame and your scarcity mindset.
Because the reality is that if life feels messy right now, chaotic, overwhelming, time-poor and anxious this is EXACTLY the right time to come for coaching.
Reminder: “ready” is not a state of mind, it’s a decision. Now is the time to act.
