You’re a woman. You need to feel powerful.

You’re a woman. You need to feel powerful.

It’s why mansplaining grates on you.  Why being expected to carry the entire emotional and domestic load makes you furious. Why being dismissed because you’re getting older can make you want to hit someone with your car. I don’t mean power over other people but...
Do You Know What’s Embarrassing? Nothing.

Do You Know What’s Embarrassing? Nothing.

Do you know what’s embarrassing? Nothing. Embarrassment is made up. Do your thing. Seriously. Embarrassment is just a collective hallucination we all agreed to participate in because our caveman ancestors were terrified of getting kicked out of the tribe for dropping...
Apparently I have a criticism kink 

Apparently I have a criticism kink 

Last month a client told me our 9 coaching sessions had been more effective for her than years of therapy or EMDR. As she was speaking I could feel myself starting to dissociate. Why is it that so many of us can receive criticism like it’s normal – but praise is...