Breaking the Catastrophising habit

Breaking the Catastrophising habit

Of all the things we do on repeat, catastrophising is one of the most destructive. This is the habit of being in a situation where there is uncertainty about what happens next – and focusing on worst case scenarios. It’s a bad habit because we are essentially...
How to Handle Rejection Better

How to Handle Rejection Better

Have you ever wondered how it is that some people handle rejection better than others? We all feel rejection. However, we don’t all interpret it in the same way. And if you want to handle rejection better then changing your interpretation of it is a very effective way...
Using the Reticular Activating System to Manifest

Using the Reticular Activating System to Manifest

Manifestation has become one of those words that gets thrown around so much that it ends up being a bit misunderstood. I hear a lot of people talk about manifesting things into their lives, as if it’s some kind of magic gift from the universe. I’m definitely willing...
Age Shame Has Got To Go

Age Shame Has Got To Go

“I just feel past it every time I go to work and am surrounded by so many young people.” I’ve heard a number of different variations on this over the years. But the sentiment remains the same for many people. Age shame – shame around ageing and getting older...
The Power of Identity Based Motivation

The Power of Identity Based Motivation

Want to change your life? Change your identity. This works because the way you behave right now is a reflection of your current identity. And if you want to behave differently – to be more motivated towards different things – changing that identity is the...
How to Stop Being an Overthinker

How to Stop Being an Overthinker

If you are someone who tends to overthink things – and by that I mean you spend hours ruminating over something that happened in the past or playing out scenarios that could happen in the future – you’re wasting a lot of time and energy. And there is one...