Losing Your Job Just Before Christmas

Losing Your Job Just Before Christmas

A couple of years ago around this time I lost a big client. They gave me 1 days notice just before Christmas that the work (and income) was gone.  That was a time when I was still balancing being a freelance writer with my growing coaching practice. It was my...
None of your feelings are ‘bad’

None of your feelings are ‘bad’

I was waiting in line at the post office in my local Spar this week and being subjected to old 80s christmas songs because I couldn’t drown them out with the Wicked soundtrack in my headphones. And it occurred to me how demandingChristmas is when it comes to our...
‘Tis the Season to be Selfish

‘Tis the Season to be Selfish

“If you worry about being selfish it’s likely you have no sense of self.” I heard this recently and it was a gut punch. For those of us raised in the age of obedience, selfish is a BAD word. And selfless is the aim. That’s the programming we’re running. Probably...